M&A

MOLLY & ANDY

THE WEDDING

SUNDAY MAY 24TH, 2026
WALDORF ASTORIA
BEIJING, CHINA

EVENTS SCHEDULE

We can't wait to celebrate with all of you in Beijing!
Here’s a look at all the events for the weekend:

WELCOME DINNER

Saturday May 23rd, 2026
Details to come
Smart casual attire

We'll kick off the weekend with a welcome dinner celebrating everyone's arrival to Beijing!

CEREMONY

Sunday May 24th, 2026 @ 5:30pm
Waldorf Astoria courtyard
Cocktail attire

Join us as we exchange vows in the Ming Dynasty-inspired hutong courtyard, surrounded by the charm of old Beijing.

COCKTAIL HOUR

Sunday May 24th, 2026 @ 6:00pm
Waldorf Astoria lounge
Cocktail attire

After the ceremony, we'll gather for cocktails and small bites in the hotel lounge, adjacent to the ballroom.

RECEPTION

Sunday May 24th, 2026 @ 7:00pm
Waldorf Astoria ballroom
Cocktail attire

Join us in the hotel ballroom for dinner, toasts, and dancing. We'll have the ballroom until 2:00am for all you crazy kids! 🪩

RECOVERY LUNCH

Monday May 25th, 2026
Details to come
Casual attire

Before we say goodbye, we'll have a casual Chinese lunch together to cure our collective hangovers.

FAQs

WHAT IS THE DRESS CODE?

The dress code is cocktail attire. Please dress for an outdoor ceremony in warm weather. For the men, we advise a suit and nice shoes, i.e. no sneakers. Ties are encouraged but not required. Women can opt for midi- or knee-length cocktail dresses. Floor-length gowns are optional but not required. And of course, no white for the women.

For all guests, please avoid wearing red, as red is traditionally reserved for the bride in Chinese culture.

We know it's a long journey to Beijing, and packing might be a challenge, so feel free to make any adjustments that work best for you. Just try your best to match the upscale atmosphere of the event!

DO I HAVE TO STAY ON-SITE?

We'll have a room block for our wedding, which will allow you to stay on-site at the Waldorf Astoria for a discounted rate of 18% off the best available rate. For reference, rates for May 23-25 are $382/night before the discount, which comes out to $313/night after the discount.* Stay tuned for details on booking.

The hotel is located in Wangfujing, an upscale shopping district in the heart of Beijing. On-site, you'll find several great amenities including an indoor pool, a traditional Chinese spa, and a Michelin-starred restaurant. It'll serve as a great base not only to celebrate with us, but also to unwind and explore Beijing.

Of course, staying on-site is optional. There are dozens of excellent hotels within walking distance if you prefer staying elsewhere. Some great options are Hilton Beijing Wangfujing, directly across the street ($237/night), and Regent Beijing, a 6-minute walk away ($178/night).*

*Rates as of Sep 2025

CAN I BRING A PLUS ONE?

We kindly request that you do not bring a plus one unless it has been specifically indicated on your save the date. Our venue has a strict max capacity, and we've carefully planned our guest list accordingly. Thanks for understanding!

WHAT WEATHER SHOULD I EXPECT?

May weather in Beijing is typically pleasant but warm. For our wedding date specifically, the historical average high is 28°C / 83°F, and the average low is 14°C / 57°F, with low humidity. We expect sunshine, but if there is rain, we'll set up the venue accordingly.

CAN I TAKE PHOTOS DURING THE CEREMONY?

Please, no phones and cameras during the ceremony. But feel free to take as many photos and videos as you want during the reception!

ARE CHILDREN INVITED TO THE CEREMONY?

We kindly ask that your children do not attend the ceremony but we can't wait to see them at the reception!

TRAVEL

GENERAL

We're honored that you would take time out of your busy schedules to join us on our special day, especially considering the difficulty in traveling all the way to Beijng!

We've put together some helpful information on arranging travel to China.

We recommend purchasing flights 4-6 months out for the best prices. You may also need a travel visa to enter China. If you do, we recommend you apply at least 1-2 months prior to the wedding. Please read the visas section below for more info.

TRAVEL VISAS

Depending on your travel plans, you may or may not need a Chinese visa.

China offers a 240-hour (10-day) visa-free transit policy which allows you to spend up to 10 days in China without a Chinese visa, as long as you fulfill certain requirements. With this policy, you must enter and exit from different countries (layovers do not count). For example, you could do U.S. → China → third country. The order does not matter; third country → China → U.S. would also work. Essentially, as long as you are entering China from one country, and exiting China to a different country than the one you originally came from, then your trip qualifies. (Taiwan and Hong Kong both qualify for the visa-free policy!)

Upon entry, you must show your confirmed flight ticket (with date and assigned seat) to the third country (the flight must depart within 240 hours of your arrival). With the visa-free transit policy, you must stay within the “allowed areas.” Most major cities fall within the allowed areas, but double check if you're planning to visit other regions in China.

If you're not planning on utilizing the visa-free transit policy, all U.S. citizens are required to have a tourist visa to enter China. The process to get a visa requires quite a bit of info, so please make sure you apply at least 1-2 months in advance. You will need your travel information (e.g., flight info + accommodations) in order to apply for a visa. You can change that info afterward, but you'll need it to submit your visa application. You may need to visit a Chinese consulate, which are located in major American cities (e.g., LA, SF, NY), so please plan accordingly if you're not near one. The cost for a single-entry visa is the same as a 10 year visa, s we recommend getting the 10 year visa so you can come back in the future!

PAYMENT

Please get the AliPay app; it's a prominent vendor with a digital wallet that you can connect your credit card to. AliPay is also the wallet to use for public services like trains and buses. Some merchants exclusively accept AliPay.

Please note, some merchants won't accept cash or credit card. Even street vendors might require AliPay or WeChat Pay these days.

The AliPay app also has DiDi, China's version of Uber, so make sure you download it and set up your profile beforehand. You'll need to enter your credit card and passport info before you can use it.

Larger vendors like hotels, high-end restaurants, and luxury shopping malls mostly accept Visa and Mastercard, but it's kind of a crapshoot so we recommend having AliPay and some Chinese cash ready as a backup.

ACCESSING THE INTERNET

To access restricted sites in China (e.g. Google, YouTube, Instagram, etc.), you'll need to either set up international data or use a VPN.

To set up international data on your phone plan, contact your carrier and have them set up international data and calling for you. Usually, you can set up either a daily or monthly payment plan. On data, you'll be able to access all the sites you'd be able to access in the U.S. This method is pricier than the VPN method (below), but it's very straightforward.

Alternatively, you can download a VPN prior to arrival. With a VPN, you'll be able to access all the restricted sites as well. You will need to install it on your mobile device and laptops prior to arrival in China.

There are many VPNs that work. Astrill VPN ($30/mo) is generally considered the best, but feel free to do your own research and find one that works best for you. We've linked an article below that has more info on the best VPNs for use in China.

ExpressVPN, NordVPN, PrivateInternetAccess (PIA), and Surfshark will not reliably work (if at all) in China, so avoid using any of these.

If you're on Wi-Fi in China, you won't be able to access restricted sites, regardless of whether or not you have international data or a VPN set up. So if you don't need to access restricted sites, feel free to use the hotel Wi-Fi. Otherwise, you're better off using international data or VPN.

MESSAGING

The following apps are restricted and inaccessible without a VPN or international data: WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, Instagram, Gmail.

Please install and create an account on WeChat ahead of your trip. We'll create a group chat for all guests in attendance and can answer any questions there as well.

WeChat also has a digital wallet called WeChat Pay, which you may find useful as some vendors only accept WeChat Pay. Make sure to link it to your credit card prior to arrival!

Andy's WeChat ID is andymurrayhsu. Molly's is MollySunisthebest.

GETTING AROUND

DiDi is China's version of Uber. It's in every major city and is highly reliable, cheap, and safe. But you'll only be able to access it as a mini-app via the Alipay app. Please download the Alipay app (you'll need it for any purchases in the country) and you'll be able to call vehicles on DiDi. You can also hail taxis and pay with cash to get around.

Public transportation is also clean, reliable, and very affordable. Use Apple Maps for directions and transportation times (Google Maps isn't as accurate), and Alipay for payment.

FLYING IN

The main airport in Beijing is Beijing Capital International Airport (PEK). Most international flights will land you here. It's 28 km / 17 mi away from the hotel. Without traffic, it's about a 35 min car ride from the airport to the hotel. We recommend purchasing flights 4-6 months out for the best prices, but we encourage you to keep an eye on rates for the 6+ months leading up to the wedding.

EXPLORING BEIJING

As the capital of China, Beijing is filled with incredible historic sites, and a short trip to the Great Wall. As a bonus, you can stay at 5-star hotels and eat Michelin-starred food for a fraction of the price you'd pay in the U.S. (The Ritz Carlton is only around $200/night!)

Beijing is massive, and because of its size and spread-out nature, it's not super walkable, so you'll need to get around via public transit or taxi/DiDi. It's also an incredibly safe city (same is the case for China overall).

Also, when visiting most historic sites in Beijing, you'll need your passport to get through security, so we advise bringing it with you during any tours or excursions. You'll also need your passport to get tax refunds while shoppings, so we recommend carrying it around with you. Just don't lose it :)

We'll put together a full guide for things to do, places to eat, where to stay, etc. in the coming months!

TRAVELING WITHIN CHINA

We highly recommend exploring more of China beyond Beijing while you're here! Here are some recommendations for other places worth visiting:

Great Wall of China: about 1.5-2 hours from Beijing by car, making it a great day trip from Beijing (don't miss the fun toboggan ride!)
Shanghai: the NYC of China, great for shopping, art, food, coffee, bars, and nightlife, 4.5 hours from Beijing by bullet train
Suzhou: the Venice of China with its many canals running through the city, also known as China's garden city, just 30 min from Shanghai by bullet train
Xi'An: one of China's Four Great Ancient Capitals, and home to the famous Terracotta Army, 5 hours from Beijing by bullet train
Zhangjiajie: home to the stunning Zhangjiajie National Forest Park, where the movie Avatar was filmed, encompassing forests, rivers, waterfalls and 2 large natural land bridges, a 3-hour flight from Beijing
Chengdu: considered by many to be the food capital of China and one of the best food cities in the world, also home to many panda bases, 7.5 hours by bullet train or a 3-hour flight
Hong Kong: a distinctly more international/Western city, home to dim sum, endless shopping, and a beautiful harbor, a 4-hour flight from Beijing (note: prices in HK are notably higher vs. mainland China)
Hainan: the Hawaii of China, a beautiful tropical island in the south of China that's also famous for Hainan chicken, a 4-hour flight from Beijing

China has an amazing high-speed rail system to connect you to many of these cities/regions from Beijing. It's affordable, comfortable, and has numerous options throughout the day (trains depart almost every 15 minutes).

There are two websites you can use to book train tickets: Ctrip (Trip.com) or 12306 (12306.cn/en/index.html). They have all of the train options listed and accept international credit cards. Note that you'll need your passport information in order to book travel online. You'll also need to carry your passport in order to board any train.

OUR STORY

MOLLY'S VERSION

Ever since I was a little girl, I dreamed of moving to New York City. Naturally, I’ve watched dozens of NYC chick flicks — The Devil Wears Prada, Bride Wars, You’ve Got Mail… you name it. But the one I never quite liked? How to Be Single. Not because I don’t adore Dakota Johnson, but because I’ve always believed I’d meet my Mr. Right in New York — not spend my days learning how to be alone.

It was early spring in the city — that tricky in-between season where it’s still cold, but you can almost feel warmth around the corner. After yet another disappointing date, I found myself alone one night, casually scrolling through Hinge. That’s when I saw a guy from California had sent me a rose. (On Hinge, a rose is more meaningful than a regular "like"!) I immediately remembered something a tarot reader in West Village had told me not long before: “Your future partner will be from California.” Half-jokingly, I told myself, “Well, maybe this is your Mr. Right.” We matched quickly and exchanged a few messages, but when he didn’t ask for my number, I assumed he wasn’t that interested. So, like many dating app convos, that one fizzled out. Weeks later, I reopened the app — and there he was, messaging me: “Wanna grab wine sometime?” Suddenly, I was intrigued again. I said yes, and this time, we actually exchanged numbers.

Our first date was on a weeknight in May at Ruffian, a cozy little wine bar in the East Village. He showed up carrying an Outdoor Voices tote bag, and I remember thinking, “Hmm... he doesn’t seem super straight.” 😂 But it was our second date that really stayed with me. We met at Gantry Park, and he brought Kaia — his dog. The moment I met her, she jumped up on me with so much excitement. Later, we watched the NBA playoffs at a quiet Irish pub nearby. Kaia curled up at our feet. It was such a simple, peaceful moment — yet it felt strangely familiar, like something I’d been waiting for. That night, something shifted in me. For the first time in two years of trying to find my place in a new city, I felt at home.

Six months later, we moved into an apartment right next to Gantry Park — the place where I first met Kaia and really got to know Andy. Every time we walk Kaia through that park, I still can’t believe this is real.

I love you, New York — thank you for bringing Andy into my life.
And Andy — I love you. Thank you for completing my New York story. 💛



从小到大,我一直梦想着可以搬到纽约。于是,各种关于纽约的小妞电影我都看了个遍——《穿普拉达的女王》、《新娘大作战》、《电子情书》……你能想到的我几乎都看过。但唯一让我不太喜欢的是《单身指南》。并不是因为我不喜欢Dakota Johnson(她其实很棒),而是因为我始终坚信,我会在纽约遇到我的Mr. Right,而不是学着如何一个人生活。

纽约的初春,总是忽冷忽热。在一次又一次令人失望的约会之后,有天晚上我一个人又打开了Hinge(一个交友App)。这时候,我看到一个来自加州的男生给我送了一朵玫瑰(在Hinge上,玫瑰的意义比普通点赞要更特别一些)。我一下子想起了不久前在West Village的一个塔罗牌师曾跟我说:“你未来的另一半会来自加州。”我半开玩笑地对自己说:“试试看,说不定这就是你的Mr. Right。” 我们很快就match了,聊了几句,但他没有问我要电话号码。按照我的经验,这意味着“没兴趣”。于是那天晚上的对话也就到此为止。几周之后,我又一次打开Hinge,他直接发来消息:“想一起去喝杯酒吗?”我瞬间又来了兴趣,立马答应了,这次我们顺利交换了联系方式。

我们的第一次约会是在五月的一个工作日晚,在East Village的Ruffian小酒吧。他背着一个Outdoor Voices的帆布包,我心里还悄悄嘀咕:“嗯?这个男生看起来……不太直” 😂 但真正让我印象深刻的是我们的第二次约会。我们约在Gantry Park,他带来了Kaia(他的狗狗)。Kaia第一次见到我时,兴奋地扑在我身上。我们后来找了一家没什么顾客的Irish Pub,看了那年NBA的季后赛。Kaia安静地蜷缩在我们脚边。那一刻,虽然场景陌生,却莫名熟悉。我的心一下子安静下来——这在纽约是很少有的感觉。Kaia和Andy的出现,让在异乡漂泊了两年的我,第一次感觉到了“家”。

六个月后,我们搬到了Gantry Park旁边,也就是我第一次见到Kaia的地方。每次带Kaia回到我们第二次约会的地点,我都感觉一切像梦一样。

我爱你,纽约,谢谢你把Andy带到我身边。
我爱你,Andy,谢谢你完成了我关于纽约的故事。💛

ANDY'S VERSION

I first saw Molly on my Standouts on Hinge. Her profile had a photo of her at the U.S. Open and said she wanted to get certified in wine, so I knew I had to send her a rose (the Hinge equivalent of a super-like). Much to my surprise, she matched with me shortly after. But after just a few messages, she ghosted me. I was devastated, but I told myself I needed to move on. That's dating in New York.

A few weeks later, I was at the Lincoln Center's Spring Gala with my good friend, Dennis. Afterward, we were enjoying the post-gala bottomless champagne, when he told me he just matched with that girl I sent a rose to a few weeks ago. (We'd often exchanged stories about our Hinge escapades.) I thought "I can't let Dennis steal my girl," and in a champagne-fueled burst of boldness, I sent Molly a double text. "There's this great wine bar I'd love to take you to. Are you free Friday?" Shockingly, she replied and said yes. It was the first time a double text had ever worked for me.

Two hours before our date, she canceled, saying she was busy at work. I was disappointed, and I questioned if I would ever actually get to meet her. But then, she offered her Instagram, and we followed each other. I started posting stories of the best meals I could cook up and the cutest photos of Kaia, hoping she'd notice. We messaged sporadically over the next week or two, but then the conversation died. Desperate, I went to her profile, and saw that she had a "Yoga diaries" highlight. Immediately, I booked a yoga class for the next day and put it on my story. She saw it and replied "Wow you like yoga?" Easy money. 😎

After a few more weeks of her stringing me along, we finally met on May 24th, 2023 (note the date!) at a wine bar in East Village. The conversation flowed as naturally as the wine, and by the end of the night, I was completely smitten by her trademark laugh.

For our second date, we met at Gantry Park in Long Island City for a picnic with Kaia. When she arrived, she pulled out a dog toy and said "I got this for Kaia!" That's when I knew.

After just 6 months, we moved in together, just a few steps away from where we had our second date. It's been home ever since.

TAYLOR'S VERSION

Sparks Fly, You Are In Love, Everything Has Changed.
It's a love story, baby, just say yes.

REGISTRY

Genuinely, your presence is more than enough, especially considering the journey we are having you make all the way to Beijing. If you do insist, feel free to contribute to our future together by giving us a "hong bao"! 🧧

RSVP HERE

At this time, please just let us know if you're planning on joining us in Beijing so we can get an estimated headcount. Formal invitations with RSVPs for specific events and meal preferences will follow.